LoVe

We all must have asked this question to ourselves"what is love?"Dont know about you but i have asked this question countless times and got no answer. When you fall in love you dont fall in that "TRAP ;-) " because you WANT TO
Lets take some scenarios :
.. You just see the person and MAY BE you can have love at first sight or as you interact with the person you fall in love in slowly and gradually. oNe day comes when you just realise how much you love that person who always remains there in all the phases. you propose and the person says that magical word "YES" . yoU GET WHAT YOU WANT .... HAPPY ENDING .. RARE SCENARIOS
LETS TAKE A COMMON SCENARIOS....
You meet a person and you hate the person from the first look and think that he is the biggest playboy you would find around. YOU IGNORE the person..BUt not for very long some how you people talk and thats how everythings begins.. MIND IT .. YOU STILL "dislike the person" but not HATE now... Even when you dislike the person you like sharing things which you would not even share with anyone else..You start doing things together. Now he is your "CASUAL FRIEND" .Then one day you decide to go out its that day when you realise how deeply you feel for that person... its then that the DEVILS welcome you to that ditch which is so deep that you cannot find an end to it...You fall head over heels now... for the first time becoming serious in a relation.you express your feelings its then that you get a stab that the person whom you have started feeling feels for some one else and you .. YOU ARE JUST A FRIEND nothing more.. You think fine i wont fall in this ditch and this is nothing more than infatuation .. YOU WOULD GET OVER IT.. you think that once and thats it... and it would be finished.. BUT NO.. you just cant get over your feellings.. your feelings makes you so weak that you lose your everything over it .. when i say everything i mean it your peace,sleep everything .. One day you fight with that "MOST IMPORTANT PERSON" you become so hurt that you decide its better if you end your life .. you break up everything that you have with that person.. Now the other person who understands very well what feelings you have for him tries to console you but you are one adament fool and want to do what you want.. from here on there are 2 endings that you can choose (choice is yours)
1. You finish off your life and you finish everything that existed .
2. You live but with this hope that someday the person whom you love so much that you want to live for that person rather than die will understand and your life will change over night and you wil became the happiest person rather than cribbiest hee hee hee...
This story can go on .. many of you can finish the story your way .. i didnt wish to bore anyone so this is it...
I find that if people have reason for loving some one its a selfish love ... love without reason .. love all the bad things the other person has ....and most of all....
A PERSON WHO IS NOT YOUR BEST FRIEND CAN NEVER BE A GOOD LIFE PARTNER BUT A BEST FRIEND CAN BE THE BEST LIFE PARTNER...
SO BEFORE ANYTHING BE THAT FRIEND IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE ...