CHANGES

Someone once said
" CHANGE IS ESSENCE OF LIFE "

I guess he was right and he had a foresight better than any of us.
In the span of my career in IT i have seen people changing more than the policies and that baffles me .
I am a girl who is bad in politics and worse in diplomacy :-(
I tried to learn these traits and failed with flying colors, Though i have seen people who have done this with so aplomb as if this was their forte.
When i see people around me change so fast i feel i never knew them really.
Convenience is something that they were looking for and when they got that they modified themselves to fulfil the needs. " Survival of the fittest " this quote by Charles Darwin holds so much worth in today's life . He would had been amazed to know that what he said for species in paleolithic age holds true in 21st century also.
But i am trying to find an answer to a question which is unanswered for me :
IS CHANGING IN A NEGATIVE WAY IS NECESSARY ?

I Love You

I love you because you make me happyI love you because you make me feel safe and secureI love your smileI love the way you say my nameI love the look in your eyes when you tell me you love meAnd how you laugh at me when I do something stupid, when others would putme down.I love the fact that when I'm around you I can be myself and not worryabout what you may think of me, because I know you love me for who I am. No matter what my faults may be.I love being able to wake up with you by my side... It makes my daysbetterAt night I love watching you sleep, hearing you take each breath, andfeeling your heart beat with the palm of my hand... reality hits that youare not a dream YOU ARE MINE.I love the way you wrap your arms around me and hold me really tight, likethere is no tomorrowAnd I love the way I feel when your lips barely touch mine for a kiss, thelove and emotions that go through me at that moment are unexplainable.I love your laughI love hearing your voiceI love that you get along with my family and friend, no matter how muchyou dislike them, or who they are.And hearing you tell me your stories, you could tell them to me a thousandtimes, and I will never get tired of them, because they are a part of you.But the main reason I love you is because.....You are you!

My Trip To Lonavala

Well well i am sure that people who have lived in Pune will go to Lonavala atleast once in their stay here,thats the custom i guess :-P

Guess what :-) i completed one year in Pune by going to Lonavala. it was a fun trip for me. We went on bike so there was no protection what so ever from the wind,dust and small small flying objects which inevitably found their way in my eyes and mouth( i swallowed one of them yuukkss!!!! ) .

We started out journey at 1800 hours from where i stay praying to god that "PLEASE DONT RAIN" , This trip was not at all about sightseeing it was more about being on bike :-D and ya how can i forget the Rs 4 tea in Lonavala. So in short we went to have tea in Lonavala. That was out aim while going there. Our avg speed was 60 km/h and we had to stop for a Sutta Break(Smoke Break) as my partner in crime needed it . The person whom i went with is the confident and safest biker . While going through the old highway there were three things which stuck me most. First being the countryside around me it was beautiful. I have almost visited all the hill stations in northern India so small cliffs now dont entice me so much but i was awestuck by the sights i saw in a cloudy evening. Lets come to the second thing it has to be the no. housing societies out in nowhere which made me realise that in next 10 years the countryside that i saw will be milling with crowd and the greenry thats there now if not maintained will be lost. Last and the final, I asked my partner in crime why there are so many heavy vehicle on old highway when they have the pleasure of using the new express highway. The answer that was given to me was "CHEAP" ok what i mean here is, the toll is cheaper than express highway. Now that proves The point of Russell Peters that "INDIANS ARE CHEAP"(No offence intended towards anyone) .

We reached Lonavala by 2000 hrs and had the famous " Tea " :-) which was no doubt refreshing and Lonavala in famous for its Chikkis so i got some from there and half of it was finished on the way only it was soo good. We left Lonavala around 2030 hrs and it was drizzling at that moment and guess what by the time we reached the starting of the Lonavala it was pouring and we were wet so we experienced the famous ghat rain too. We had to stop at first toll bridge for fifteen minutes so that we can talk to our Moms and get saved from the warth of raingod. From there we started our journey back and TRUST ME we completed the journey in less than 40 mins,we had an average speed of 80 km/hr and we were speechless and and i enjoyed that ride. HAve you ever felt the thrill of passing between two vehicles on a decent speed of 70 , i felt it and it was an awsm feeling.

By the time we reached home we had mud pack on our face and our hair was entangled with fine dust bu the feeling in my heart my something that i just cant comprehend in words.

!*! Body Art !*!

Body Art is the most ancient form of art which existed even before the human species learned to cover the body with animal skin or better Leaves ;-) . They used to paint there body with colours which they extracted from leaves or made from different natural things around them.

Another form of art was that of piercing the body with different sharp materials and keeping them pierced for years to come.

In some tribal community the chief of the tribe is recognised by the number of piercing the person has done throughout the years and this ritual is going on for centuries.

It is amazing to see how body art has evolved from being an obligation to fashion statement in recent times. 95% of people in India alone has some or other body art on them it can be a simple ear piercing and can be a tattoo anywhere in body.

Earlier centuries women used to do piercing so that they can look beautiful by wearing those enormous stones/gems. Looks like we have followed that tradition beautifully over the centuries ,and no doubt we have taken the legacy ahead by not only making it more beautiful but appealing in our own way ..

When a girl does Navel piercing it is considered to be attractive and when a boy goes for eyebrow piercing forgetting the fear of pain inevitably he gets the tag of cool dude.

I still remember my personal experience when i went for navel piercing , i had mixed emotions of fear and excitement and once the piercing was done i was on seventh heaven :-D may be eighth , seriously i don't remember i just knew that i have done something that will be with me , my secret.

Same goes for the tattoos they are with us for centuries and this concept of tattoo have been used in movies and the latest trend being the person whom you love you have the name tattooed on your hand and several other things .

Piercings are in a way permanent on your body but the best part about tattoos is that they can be temporaray also and seriously i wont mind getting one myself one day which will be permanent :-P .

For now i have had many temporary ones ..

IrR!T@t!ng Pe0pLE

I think you all must have come across some or other people in your daily life or office or just on road when you are walking doing things which enrages you to no limit and at that very moment your adrenaline is SO high that you can do anything to to tame them.

I have such people in office where i spend more than 12 hours in a day with these dreadful pathetic species. They know no limits for their Dirty / Pathetic / Poor jokes and can go on doing stuffs which to sane people looks BAD.

I have worked in Wipro BPO for 2 years and enjoyed that experience before moving to WT ( in simple words becoming a more sophisticated girl/lady and a big bore also :-P) When i moved to WT i was a bit apprehensive to peoples reaction in WT because i had a notion that in WT people are big snob and snooty but when i met "WT GUYS" They were nice to me. In my project i met this TL who commented on how unprofessional "WE" are ( Here we refers to people who have transffered from BPO to WT ) at that very moment he was the biggest cribbest and the monsterous person for me however now when i look back and analyze why that comment was made i can understand because WT is a place of Very sophisticated,Well educated( half of it is in papers only ) and silent people and when we made noise or were boisterous they thought that its just luck that brought us here with no hardwork what so ever..When i look now around me i know why that TL made that comment because i am sure that in a silent room when you are trying to concentrate over something and suddenly you find a guy giving out throaty laugh with no heart in it.. it sounds like 100 steel vassels falling at same time.. ITS irrriiitating!!!!!

See thats just a small example i can give out probably 100 of these kinds .. and i go through these things daily ..
But you know what helps me cope up!!
Its the faith in GOD that someday we will have ample amount of Feviquick in our project that we can seal their mouths ance and for ALL!!!!

10 Things I Hate About You

I hate the way you talk to me
And the way you cut your hair
I hate the way you drive my car
I hate it when you stare

I hate your big dumb combat boots
And the way you read my mind
I hate you so much that it makes me sick
It even makes me ryhme

I hate the way you're always right
I hate it when you lie
I hate it when you make me laugh
Even worse when you make me cry

I hate the way you're not around
And the fact that you didn't call
But mostly I hate the way I don't hate you
Not even close, not even a little bit, not even at all.

Jealousy

Jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love. This is the dictionary meaning of the word lets come to a bit more practical world and discuss this thing..
Ever felt this feeling when someone did something exceptionally good and you knew that you could have done the same thing in better way or for that matter when that special person in your life goes on talking or smsing someone when you are there.

This is one feeling that not even GOD could not avoid... Perfect example will be our very own MAHABHARAT… Where Duryodhan was jealous just because he could not get Draupadi J hee hee hee... I know its mythology but this puts up a nice example for a strong feeling like this which is just so difficult to understand or to put in words. Most of the time we are jealous of someone whom we know don’t know at all... Because that creates fear in our mind as we are not aware of the strengths and weakness of the other person and any one of us who would not be jealous will be termed as “OVER CONFIDENT” over one self...

Jealousy is often a feeling that generates a lot of anger which is always negative and is of no good use. When you are jealous you just don’t care about what your dear ones feel. This is bad as you hurt them just because you are not feeling good about someone or something.

Lovers or People who are in louuuuuuuu often feel jealous of the closest friend of their love as they seem to be more close to them.
This just hampers the relation that you share with that one special person. So don’t be Jealous as it brings you nothing good but just all negative and bad things.

Question for all people who would read this:
Why is green associated with jealousy? (I thought a lot could not get any answer)